I'm seriously annoyed by nearly everyone today

It could just be hormones, or it could be that people are just rude or don't think. 

There was a thread entitled "Circumcision". Then inside the question was, "when do they do it". There were plenty of responses to when these people had their sons' circumcised. I simply wrote, "We opted not to. Not preaching to you at all, but do your research" And then to make sure it was all good, I had little wink emotiocon inserted.

The next f'ing poster wrote, "This isn't a discussion about contemplating circumcision. She's obviously already made the decision to do it and was asking when it is typically done." 

So because I'm already completely annoyed with people I wrote: "You obviously didn't read my post clearly when I said, NOT preaching to you." Yes, I know bitchy but I don't care. Maybe she didn't know she had options in this regard. I wasn't lecturing, just stating what we did and telling her to do her research. Maybe she has and that is fine if that is her decision for her family. I make no judgments on that. 

I am avoiding blogs that are dealing with miscarriage or other subjects that I just don't need to know about. Unless there is something specific that I NEED TO KNOW in order to avoid disaster, please don't tell me about it. This process is nerve wracking enough. I don't need any warnings about things out of my hands. 

Hopefully I'll have a nicer, more happy post later in the day. Geeze I'm not liking the way I feel today. CRABBY. 

Comments

[Debbie in the UK]

Deanna, my friend......I AM SO FREAKING HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!

You will make a fantastic mom to twins, just like you are a superb mom to Jake. Oh, this is such GOOD news!!

Much love

Debbie xx

[PJ]

Sigh... the negative to NOT hearing intonation is that people don't understand. Or don't read carefully. Or are dumb. Etcetera. :) And then, they not only don't understand but then overreact.

I hope your day has gotten better! :)

[Brooke]

Hope your day has improved! And you know what, someone reading that thread may do some research when they hadn't beforehand... how I wish someone had told me to research it!